____________['[*Moments Sharing*]']___________

To my bro (Roy) :
1st of all, let me ans the 3 qns in ur blog, my troubled bro. My ans doesn't applied to u alone, but applied to every1 too, including me.

Qn: " Do i hurt u intentionally by saying things towards you?

Ans: This shld be changed to unintentionally becuz sometimes we just mention something at the wrong time wrong place tat cuz aperson to feel hurt. THis always happens =)

Qn: " Do i purposely take on advantage of your weakness?"

Ans: Well shld be changed to not on purpose becuz sometimes u dun not tat's a person's weakness until something actually happened. Sometimes a person's weakness might be very hard to spot or the weakness might be something uncommon or simple, which u dun think its a weakness but actually it is to tat particular person. Different ppl have different weakness.

Qn : Or even, do i blame u for juz small little weakness of urs?

Ans: THis qn is abt a miscommunication btw 2 parties. 1st of all at ur side, u think tat its just a small little weakness of the party u r refering to, u feel tat u didn't fault tat person 4 tat. However, tis is not so in the other person's point of view. perhaps this might be due to unintentionally n not on purpose reaction of urs towards the small little weakness of tat person, n the person read it as u blamed tat person over this think which seems like a small weakness. A bit of the linkage towards the 1st 2 qns.. Its common tat 2 person's channel might be different, thus lead to miscommunication n misunderstandings arises.

Let's moved on to the rest of the parts in ur bloggie ^^. I'm very glad n can understand ur very kind intention to cheer some1 up when ppl ard u r down, including me. Perhaps tat's 1 thing i liked abt u is u have 1 thing in common as me. Even when u r very down, u still spare a thoughts for others n put urself last.. Ahems tis is a +ve point in my point of view, but others might not feel this way, Rmb every1 is different n some might not agree tat this attitude of us is +ve. Just just a great movie, or an interesting novel, despite majorities praises it, minorities exist to criticise it. Projecting the differences of individual's opinion. Bet u rmb the 360 degree view of a bottle thingy which i told u b4.

I can understand how devastating n "being poured cold water onto" it can be, when ur kind intention was being unappreciated. It happens to me at times too. Thus wif my experience, here's some guidance which i can offered u, if u do not wished to feel this kind of treatment again. HOpe it can be of little helped to u.

1st thing, b4 u 1 to cheer a person up when she is down, u need to understand her 1st. Wat character does she have? Is she the hot-tempered type? is she the appreciative type? is she worth ur kind intention? Of cuz understand a persn well needs many other things, too lon g4 me to place them here, thus i just put some egs 4 u.

2nd thing, is 1 of my words which i keep using, the key lies in ur hands to decide, whether to cheer her up or not? its like a gamble. u'll be thinking wat's her reaction wif be towards u, when u went up to cheer her. +ve of cuz gd!!! -ve? outcome is bad of cuz.

3rd thing, Wif the above choices, u might as well prepare urself on how to react to different situation above. If the choice is not going to cheer her up, but leave her alone, cuz from the 1st thing u noe her character is not suitable 4 ppl to cheer up, but leave her alone in silence, then just 4get abt the matter of approaching. But if she's some1 whom u cares alot, then u just wait patiently in silence until she is ready to approach u after she cooled down. Some ppl r like tat ^^. If u decided to appraoch her, here is matter of testing water, cuz from the 1st thing, u dun really noe or understand her well. (Note: Knowing a person 4 many yrs doesn't mean u understand tat person very well ) While testing water, if she starts to yell at u, scold u, like ur case, then u leave her alone. She seems unappreciative towards ur kind intention. U'll feel very disappointed towards this kind of treatment. Thus u'll need to think thru it.. Is the the 1st 3 qns of urs, unintentionally said wrong things, unpurposely hurt her weakness? Does these leads to the down person treated u badly when ur intention is supposed to be gd. Or could be the person doesn't want ppl to disturb when she's down, n she needs to be alone to cool down awhile.. iN tat case, then back to the same thing, leave her alone ^^. If she's impt, wait quietly til she comes out of her "cave" n is ready to speak to u. THen u can start cheering her up ^^. The gd reaction when u approached a down person, i believe i need not amphasis abt it =)

Finally, 1 very big NO No in ur blog... Nv ever make urself so low.. Its not abt the images in front of others.. Its abt u.. Notice tat no matter how low i am, how depressed i am, like now in my current state of mind..Nv will i stood so low into scolding n swearing... Ppl who r high in "class" civilised person will nv scold such words ^^. Bro i believe u r 1 tall, handsome gentleman, tat won't do such things=) i understand its terrible. somethings its so terrible, tat i oso feel like cursing n swearing, scolding vulgar out.. however this kind of thing u need to ctrl.. 1 thing of Being matured is oso to be able to ctrl ur temper. However none is perfect, thus notice tat i didn't fault or blame u 4 tat. cuz i treat it u did it out of anger n not on purpose =) Just to explain to u tat, there r many loyal readers or silent readers out there, n imagine they will feel very disappointed wif u over wat u wrote in the blog.. esp the scolding part. Then u'll be more lousier than ever ^^ Rmb wat i told u abt how i feel when the whole blog was just abt scolding vulgarities? Not only a post, but almost every post? Rmb wat u told me abt how u feel too? =) Gd luck my bro n grow up in ur wisdom higher .

Best wishes,
Yilun

bubbles of sadness.