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Moments of Thoughts - The 3rd Party :
Another new category in my blog. Yup Sudden things tat came to my thoughts... Thus decided to post them down. Wow quite lengthy rite? today i actually had 3 posts made.. Ok will try to keep tis short. Else readers sure says they felt boring.. Hmm wat i'm going to talk abt is the 3rd Party. Wat is the 1st think tat came to ur mind, when u heard abt tis word? It sounds so -ve isn't it?

Usually most of the time, the 3rd party is the 1 being hated n being fault.. There's a lot of situation as to being a 3rd party, be it volunteering or unintentionally... BEsides tis, dun have to be a couple in a relationship, then the 3rd party appears. 3 ppl might not be in a relationship at all, n 1 of them can oso be the 3rd party.. Meaning u dun need to hav a situation of relationship to c8 a 3rd party. Hmm quite chim rite? Its ok hard to express tis out sometimes, but u'll be clearer i talked along...

How many ppl had actually becums a 3rd party? Be it volunteer or unknowingly.. The categories r so broad, thus i'm sure every1 sure have experienced b4.. Lol let me state some funny egs ba.. 4 instance, go out in groups of 3, a couple n u. Though all r friends.. But seems u seems extra, a "big lightbulb" shining ard them. -.-! tat's a 3rd party too =P Lol jokin joking. But thinking it thru, doesn't it falls under unknowingly 3rd party? haha lame me..

ok serious... As in dramas, usually 3rd parties r the 1 who is bad.. However some were pitiful.. Let me relate a few scenarios or incidents... The incidents be it true or false, shall remain in privacy to myself. Thus names were being kept secret. Thinking tat the male role is me? Lol all these were based on my thoughts n things tat happens ard my life. Meaning wat i saw n perhaps a case tat happens to me? Who noes? U guess urself instead ^^. This situation, guy A n Girl A were best buddies. Guy A found his love Girl B n they were together.. Girl A suddenly likes Guy A, upon knowing Guy A n Girl B have becum couples.. Yet Girl A instead of keeping tis in silence, wishing them happiness, can hold on n confess Guy A her feelings.. Ended up Guy A shakens n the 3 cycle breaks into chaos.. Every1 will have different views wif regards to tis issue. Some will be +ve, some will be -ve towards the 3rd party.. However, there's no rite or wrong in tis issue..Hmm as 4 me, i'm not a person easily shaken, but committed if i ever step into a relationship...

Here's the 2nd case... Which sounds odd... n oso weird... yes.. y did i say so? Ever heard tat the 1st person can actually turns out to be the 3rd party? Lets here the incident... Guy A n Girl A know each other 1st... However they were not a pair.. Things were pleasant btw them, until 1 very day, Girl B spotted a Stranger n things starts to change.. Let's call the stranger Guy B.. The treatment towards guy A was 180degree n very sudden.. Guy A was paranoid over the sudden change n managed to know the truth.. Despaired n heartbroken, Guy A begins to think tat he's the 3rd party, instead of Guy B, will seems to b the 3rd party instead.. Thus Guy A decides to let Girl A pursue her happiness wif Guy B, cuz he feels he's coming in btw them... being extra n odd 1 out.. Staying in Girl A's shadow, n wishing her all the best.. Thus any1 can becum a 3rd party in my view.. In this case, a 3rd is formed regardless of who comes 1st...

3rd case... Guy A n Girl B know each other... Then at 1st was Girl B mentioned tat she's single. After some time, Girl B says a secret to Guy A tat actually she has a bf (Guy B), but regretted the decisions made. N leaving an impression tat Girl B has already broken up wif Guy B.. However Guy A was always thinking y the treatment Girl B gif was inconsistent n seems uncommitted.. Thus guy A begins to observe.. Finally 1 very day, soem incidents happens.. Perhaps Girl A n Guy B quarrelled over something n finally Girl A mentioned abt bf.. Thus Guy A realised tat Girl A is attached.. N finally understand the answers to his doubts.. Though guy A n Girl A wasn't really counted as a pair, but their status were really unclear too.. Guy A was sorting out the feelings 4 Girl A n was wondering how Girl A feels.. Ended up, upon knowing the truth Guy A realise tat he seems to be a 3rd party, n felt bad n lost.. As to how to treat Girl A now.. He oso couldn't think Wat Girl A is actually thinking abt? This is a case of unknowingly becoming a 3rd party..

Of the 3 cases mentioned, well has every1's impression of 3rd party changes? It all leaves to the readers thoughts. Cuz every1's view is different.. There's no rite or wrong in the ans... In my point of view.. I shall see the pic as a whole.. 4 instance 1 of my theory, dun look at a bottle in a single view, or wat ur eyes really sees in front of u.. u shld look at a bottle at every angle,cuz thought the bottle is round, but looking at different angle, gives u understand the whole pic clearer, only then, will ur views be fair ^^.

Thus i look upon cases on an individual basis.. Well sometimes 3rd party isn't the 1 in the wrong, sometimes, the most pitiful 1 of all, is none of than the 3rd party.. however i must emphasize, its esp those unintentionally or unknowingly becoming a 3rd party...Too much blabbering le.. I shall stop here...

bubbles of sadness.