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Side Post from an Email – Part (A) 21 Things Gers Dun Realise Abt Guys.

Hmm some additional side post which I would like to share. Well to me, things shld come wif both sides, not only solely focus on either side, hence the Bold Italian underlined wordings, will be what comes from the mail while the normal writings will be my own point of view. Please note that different ppl got their own point of views, hence dun come and say that what I said is wrong in ur own point of view.Ok here it goes.

1)Guys may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about...

Well for my case, I dun go ard flirting all day. (Honest Speaking!) This is not my cup of tea.. but well so I have not much comments for this remarks. Cuz rite from the start, I think its very wrong already.. of cuz, gers may be flirting ard all day too, isn't it? Well I think, either side shldn't be doing so. I believed in faithful, loyal, honest and truthful to each other. I dun consider a person who flirt whole day to be truly thinking n caring abt the real guy/ger. That's not true, why not say cuz all the guys/gers who flirt ard all day disappear or slp le, so no more guys/gers to flirt ard le, then only start thinking of that guy.. Hmm I got a situation where a person telling me she misses me, but its oso similar ba.. wat's call genuine miss, is when u are missing the person really all day. U dun miss a person when u r flirting.

2)Guys are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

Well for this case, I can agree to a certain extent, but however, I believe that despite being guy or ger, the
the real person who truly loves the other, will be more emotional n takes a lot longer to let e other go.. And
its really very painful every second u try..Cuz I'm very experienced in this manner.. I have witness
some1 else letting u go so easily, gg for the other man's arms. Well such a thing is always so painful
to the other 1, being left behind a broken r/s. Hence I think this 1 depends on self & self's true love or not.
Not solely only guys takes longer time to let go. However, I must agree that gers thinks that only they are
emotional, n assume tat guys are not, this 1 is wrong. I'm a guy and i'm a very emotional person, who's
emotions are mostly dependent on my loved ones.

3)Guys go crazy over a girl's smile(:

Well who's not crazy over the person you truly love? Regardless of a smile or not, u get crazy
all abt her. And I think not only guys alone ba. Even gers oso, but must have true love la..no
true love, ntg done counts..

4)A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.

Oohh this 1 very true n applies strongly to me. Who on earth, who's on true love doesn't want
such things to takes place? Dun keep saying “if u trust me, its ok if I contact other frds of the
opposite sex.” well of cuz its possible, but the world is really changing badly.. Trust were
broken anywhere..its not like the past when the woman only have 1 guy. I have seen so many
cpls who have bf/gf flirting ard wif other ppl of opposite sex. Now its really hard to find true
love nowadays. Of cuz this sentence, i'm not sure abt gers la, maybe they like guys who love her
to talk to her only, but its so unfair when the guy is doing so, yet the ger was flirting elsewhere.
I'm very experienced in this in my r/s b4. I can feel how bad it was, knowing that u r on the
waiting list of the ger whom u love, who's smsing u or chatting wif u n oso wif other guys.
Tat's very mean n cruel thing u can do. Platonic frdship is very hard to find this days, other than
ppl of the older generation.

5)Giving a guy a hanging message like 'You know what?..uh...nevermind..' would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

Yea, this 1 is something which I dun like either. Yup talking halfway, or not giving proper
explanation n not having a quality communication, ruins a r/s. I'm a person who likes to think
a lot, figuring out the meaing from a short sentence reply, or rather send me into guessing. I
dislike such feelings of having to guess a lot. It puts me into uncertainties. Hence I prefer a
chatty person haha.. But dun ba1 gua4 kind la.. chatty in my terms,means talk almost abt
everything to me, but not so sociable n being chatty to anybody else. I dislike flirts..

6)If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

Well this 1, I think only applies to both, not only 1.. well sharing own problems to a person,
means that this person is some1 impt to him/her. Only give advice to others unless the person
needs an advice. Otherwise, just be by his/her side, lending a listening ear, comfort him/her
helps a lot. Dun act smart, giving advices any how.. of cuz if wan to gif, gif humbly, but stop
when the atmosphere isn;t rite. So dun go ard sharing ur problems wif another ppl, as it'll gif
ppl the wrong intention that he/she is impt to u.

7)A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

Hmm agree? Well I think i'm quite naughty in a r/s ba.. Of cuz naughty not in the notorious way
la..but in terms of the cpl teasing part.. well sometimes I can even teases until over the board,
so my partner have to be some1 who can handle jokes.. haha..

bubbles of sadness.