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(09/10/08) Thursday

Its been long since I blog. Ok so now i'm back after a long weekends. Well, wat happened on Thurs? I have a very bad times at work.. I really dislike my new boss a lot.. Everything oso wan to ctrl.. Makes me really more reluctant to work.. I lost my drive to do anything.. I can't wait to leave this ofc now.. many things makes me feel like quitting,but I have to consider other things too.. I nid a job n the salary now.. So no choice have to endure.. Times are bad now.. its hard to find job n even if I manage to find 1, it might be lowly paid..

Ok so wat's interesting on tis day, is my trip to sch.. Yup I like my thurs lesson lots, 1stly cuz my lecturer is very interesting, tat I rarely feel slply, despite a long day at work.. Oso this subject is to my likings.. Social psychology. Well tonite's lesson is very valuable..I learnt many impt things in my real life from the lesson. Its stereotyping.. Yup ppl tend to stereotype..be it for gd or 4 bad.. Well it all applies in r/s..

1 main concern which I learnt was, unintentional stereotyping, which was 1 of the most scarying thing u can find in a human.. Yup they begin stereotyping some1, wifout even realising it.. ppl form stereotype from many sources..Could be due to the things they were inputed thru experiences, or learnings.. Starting from young, parents input those values, from peers who behaviour or hav such a mindset, on ppl who are easily influenced.. Oso from the pass current r/s wif their close 1s..

All these formulation of stereotyping, doesn;t not necessary comes from mouth to mouth teachings.. It could be due to some form of actions which was done on 1 person, n this person feel such actions from the other 1, n begin to unintentionally stereotype that only this action is gauge as maybe +ve, n the rest of the actions which failed to comply to such actions is deemed as -ve.. well this is especially so in boy-ger r/s..

Those stereotyping such as boys must do this n tat, gers must do this n tat in the r/s.. All these are -ve stereotyping.. Which actually cuz many unhappiness in a r/s.. Well this is not a gauge to shows tat by doing all the guidelines tat boys shld do this n tat, then is consider a gd guy, then its really too rigid.. y not build a robot, n input all this expectations n stereotype on the robot n have him/her to react n behave according on how u wanna him/her to treat u..

Well it is very impt to note that humans hav there own way of doing things n treating ppl. All human beings r different.. So its not a gd thing to stereotype ppl based on their own past experiences..Have to treat every1 as an individual.. Sigh I realise tat stereotyping have cuz a very bad experience in my r/s.. Yup but it can't be helped.. No matter how hard I tried to say, its of no use, cuz this is an eg of stereotyping wifout even knowing it..

Well I just hope things can chg 4 the better.. but its stg not within my reached..

bubbles of sadness.