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A thought after reading Xiaxue's blog

Its really better now to have a notebook ard, so each time something arises from my mind, or a ling2 gan3 arises, i dun have to fear i 4get when the time i can post them in. Hence before i'm gonna help my mum to pick rice (chinese tradition festival is here. Rice dumpling, where b4 wrapping a type of dumplings, need to pick the unwanted rice out from a bag of rice.), i shall blog awhile. Actually the process is already done, just that i heard from mum that baby niece got n mixed the picked rice back into the pile.. So end up have to do it over again.

Its really a tedious job, but weekends coming soon, and mum has the only time to do it as she dun have to look after the babies during weekends. Making rice dumplings is not an easy job, esp when making a real tasty one, which outside dumplings cannot be compared. THere's lots of things to prepare and wrapping 1 was tough. I have watched my mum do this every yr, though i watch but help the least, except for picking the rice n small tasks..

As far as i'm concerned, my mum makes the most delicious dumplings i have ever ate so far, and i think time has come, i have to stop my diet as its a pity if i miss eating her dumplings. How many more yrs can she make? Some more wrapping dumplings is not easy n require some strength as well. Well in the past, when young, maybe dun think abt such things, but probably after yrs of growing up, and learning that parents can nv stay and walk wif u thru out the rest of the life, so will feel abit emotional after this.

Well hence, i hope to learn how to do it from her, making such tasty dumplings in future n not losing her personal receipe. Ok anyway, back to the main topic, as mum's out to buy lunch, baby nephew seems to wake up from his nap. I have not much time left to blog. Well by chance, i came across xiaxue's blog, so just went into screen thru all those long post n pictures.

Of cuz she's definitely not my type of ger, but humans are diff. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, so what may seems displaced for me, other ppl might think the other way. Ok there's a topic a the very bottom of the page, where its about cheating behind partner's back. What kind of actions is really consider cheating? It seems too broad a range to set.

Here's the sentence stated in the blog, but not in exact words,"The actions of a partner which upsets or affects the other's mood, upon finding out is consider cheating. eg would be, doing anything behind a partner's back, if the partner found out, he's hurt or upset n experience mood change,this is cheating. So if need the trouble to hide something, best is dun do it." Yea usually these are somethings which are the root cuz of a broken r/s. Ok times out for babysitting job.

bubbles of sadness.